Thursday, July 31, 2008

Friends with Benefits

In today's society women have become much more like men. Not in a complete sense of course but look at how far women have come. A woman is no longer just a homemaker she is in some instances now the breadwinner of the family. Today's woman has a degree, a good paying job, and basically has life by the horns. Now I am not saying that this woman is me, I'm just generalizing here - thought I should point that out.

But back to topic.... This modern woman also has a stronger sex drive and in some cases may prefer a no strings kinda relationship. This leads me to question: Does a friends with benefits relationship ever really work?

I mean just getting out of a relationship myself I'm not sure I want to jump right back into another one. But sometimes a gal can get lonely and it would be nice to have someone that you are comfortable with that you can call to come share your bed. But does this sort of relationship work? And I know myself well enough that I don't know if I could do it no strings attached. I would be afraid I would start to have feelings for the person and then I would get my heartbroke.

So why is that I am even considering this type of relationship? Are my old fashioned ways going out the door with my old life? Or is it just that I'm evolvoing?

Tuesday, July 29, 2008


Hello, and welcome all to my version of Sex and the City. That is if Carrie was 25, divorced, starting a new job, and had no clue where her life was going. I have always wanted to write and during this time in my life I have decided to take the cards life has handed me and write about them anonymously in hopes of entertaining people with the twists my life is taking. Most events I write about will be true, however I am reserving the right to take a creative license and embellish a little so as to make them more entertaining. And some events may not be what I did but what instead I wish I would have done. Which posts are fact and which are fiction? That will be for you to decide. So here is to a new chapter in life....